By Jeevika Sharma
Dating is the foundation of a relationship. It could be it a short term or a long term relationship and sex acts as a strong binding agent for the relationship, for most of the relationships if not all. Here are a few ways by which one can spice up their dating and sex life to maintain the interesting in the same person for a longer duration-
- Explore new places: Couples are advised that they should explore new places together. It could either be a new city, state or country. The main concern here is to explore the place together which interests both of them. This would help the couples to know each other better.
- Explore new positions: Trying out new sex positions keeps the spice alive between the couple and helps the relationship stay fresh. It also helps in building a stronger emotional and physical bond with each other. However, this may not be suitable for all but, would benefit most couples.
- Try new Lingerie: Trying new lingerie keeps the couple excited. Women are more excited to try out new lingerie as they are more fashionable and gives them a voluptuous feel. Whereas their male partner considers it as sensual. This keeps the couple engaged with each other thus maintaining the spark in the relationship.
- Go on a dance date: Join a personal dancing session. Learn some moves together and build a stronger connection. This would keep both of them happy and invested into each other. Dancing releases hormones which help to manage stress and this indirectly will keep the couple happy with each other.
- Keep up the sex life, a little foreplay is important. This again is an engaging activity and builds the feeling of togetherness in each other. This is the core of maintaining sexual and emotional interest in each other between couples.
- A great conversation is important to spice up the date. Talk about any crazy experiences that you had in the past. This communication will be full of laughter, judgements and trolling. This helps to know each other better and also keeps the couples updated about each other lives and views.
- Talk about each other’s turn-ons and sexual desires. This would allow you to know the other better and would also help with what to expect and how to act while getting physical with each other. One can get into such a conversation 2-3 times in a year.
- Go out on dinner dates whenever possible. A romantic candlelight dinner on the beach with a pretty sea or mountain view, good food and good drinks. This is the benchmark for a romantic date from time immemorial. This will make the couple fall in love again and keep the relationship fresh and lively. Make sure you dress well, hair done perfectly with minimal makeup.
Relationship coach Jeevika Sharma
